Patti Hidalgo Menders and Richard Urban Will speak at the Strengthening Families and Communities Forum to be held on Saturday, March 18th at 10:30 a.m. at the Peace Kingdom Center in Harpers Ferry, West Virginia.  The forum is centered on the premise that to help youth succeed we need to break the cycle of outside of wedlock birth.  Therefore, we need a revolution of abstinence-centered education.

Patti Hidalgo Menders

Patti’s greatest accomplishment is as a Loudoun Mom of Six Sons, a Daughter to parents who escaped communist Cuba and a Loudoun Advocate that continues to protect children from CRT and other progressive ideologies.

She is the Community Liaison Officer in Northern Virginia for the Office of the Virginia Attorney General, Jason Miyares.
She is the Founder/Director of the Loudoun Conservatives Care state PAC, which puts on events for conservatives and raises money for local charities, Republican Candidates, and Conservative organizations.

Richard Urban

Richard is the Co-founder, VisionRootUrban Life Training and Urban Grocery.  Richard has been teaching abstinence-centered curricula and organizing clubs for middle and high school youth in Washington DC and elsewhere since 2002.


The event is free, but registration is required.  Lunch will be provided.  

Register by March 13th at

The Strengthening Families and Communities Forum is part of the Peaceful Families; Peaceful World Workshop.


Join us for the 2nd Annual Urban Life Training (ULTRA Teen Choice) Alumni and Friends Barbecue, Sunday, August 28th, 2022 at the Peace Kingdom Center in beautiful Harpers Ferry WV.

All Urban Life Training/ULTRA Teen choice alumni, parents and friends are welcome.  Suggested donation, $10.

The Alumni and Friends Barbecue is immediately following the Strengthening Families and Communities Forum, being held at the same location from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

The Strengthening Families and Communities Forum is part of the Peaceful Families, Peaceful World workshop.  

Register for the Barbecue and the Workshop here.


View highlights from the Urban Life Training Alumni and Friends Barbecue on August 22nd, 2021:

Handout from the Alumni and Friends Barbecue:  A Revolution of True Love


Urban Life Training provides directive, abstinence-centered health education through our community network of trained parents and community leaders.

 We NeedStuart Hobson Youth

  • School Relationship Intelligence Lecturers (Paid, part time)
  • School Leadership Club Leaders (Paid, part time)
  • Donations to support the program

If you are interested in being a Lecturer or Club Leader in Jefferson County West Virginia (see below for other locations), download this application and return it to Urban Life Training.

Here are the basic responsibilities of the positions:

School Relationship Intelligence Lecturer

Work part time, one day to several days a week, about 6 hours per day

Urban Life Training held three training seminars

March 18, 2017:  Relationship Intelligence Seminar March 18th, 2017

Urban Life Training Relationship Intelligence Seminar March 18, 2017

            What: Relationship Intelligence Training for Parents, Teachers, & Youth. Learn Abstinence-Centered Materials that you can teach via our online Web Portal.

July 15, 2017:  What is God’s Plan for Sex?  Urban Life Training Relationship Intelligence &
STAR Interfaith Leadership Training Seminar


What: Leadership Training for those who want to learn to teach Abstinence-Centered Materials that you can access via  our online Web Portal.

November 24 to 26 2017:  STAR Interfaith Leadership Training Conference


What:  Dr. Chanda Adkins of West Virginians for Health

Freedom spoke on Vaccine Choice

STAR Interfaith Leadership training examines the physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual benefits of a lifestyle of sexual abstinence. It provides a clear Biblical worldview and teachable materials for those who want to practice abstinence and also assist others in doing the same.

Urban Life Training Launched the teacher web portal at in March, 2017.  Now anyone can access over 100 hours of teaching materials covering the physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual and Biblical reasons why sexual abstinence before marriage is the best choice.
For just $25 per quarter any individual can subscribe to the teacher web portal and can have unlimited use of all of the materials.  For just $75 per quarter, schools, organizations and institutions subscribe.

Looking ahead to 2018.  We look forward to working with West Virginians for Helth Freedom to bring vaccine choice to West Virginia parents.  See Dr. Chanda Adkins excellent presentation here

Join Urban Life Training, many other vendors and hundreds of concerned citizens for West Virginia Health Freedom Day on January 15th, 2018 at the West Virginia State Capitol in Charleston, WV.

We look forward to bringing STAR Interfaith Leadership Training to your location.  If you have five or more attendees, we want to bring the training to your location.  Contact me, Richard Urban if you are interested.

Subscribe to the Urban Life Training Teacher Web Portal Here:

Would you consider giving a year end donation to support our valuable work?  We are fighting for the well-being and successful future of our children and young adults.  You can make a one-time donation or subscribe to the Urban Life Training web portal here