Arguably, the most important decision you will ever make is finding your marriage partner. 

Meet the challenge of being the best person you can be in order to find the best person to be your eternal match. is intended for those who have remained abstinent from sex in preparation for marriage, or those who have returned to abstinence before marriage.

All participants will take a 40-day Blessing Preparation Course before making their profile at   The next Blessing Preparation Course begins May 7, 2024.  When you register, the Blessing Preparation online Course is included, as well as a one-year membership in

Those who find their eternal partner at will receive the Blessing of Marriage in a public or private ceremony.

Those who are already married can also receive the Marriage Blessing initiated by Rev. Sun Myung Moon and his wife and can register here.

Start your journey to find your eternal match today by registering at

Register Now is a project of Urban Life Training.

Join us for a screening of Gender Transformation; the Untold Realities, followed by a panel and discussion:

Strengthening Families and Communities Forum
Saturday November 18th

10:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.: Screening of the documentary
Gender Transformation; the Untold Realities
12:00 p.m. to 1:00 p.m. Audience and panel discussion on:
Understanding parent’s rights and stopping sexual indoctrination in public schools.

Lunch will be served following the discussion.
Free-Registration Required:

Location:  Peace Kingdom Center,
Harpers Ferry WV
Attend live online by Zoom.

Free-Registration Required:

Register Now
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Patti Hidalgo Menders and Richard Urban Will speak at the Strengthening Families and Communities Forum to be held on Saturday, March 18th at 10:30 a.m. at the Peace Kingdom Center in Harpers Ferry, West Virginia.  The forum is centered on the premise that to help youth succeed we need to break the cycle of outside of wedlock birth.  Therefore, we need a revolution of abstinence-centered education.

Patti Hidalgo Menders

Patti’s greatest accomplishment is as a Loudoun Mom of Six Sons, a Daughter to parents who escaped communist Cuba and a Loudoun Advocate that continues to protect children from CRT and other progressive ideologies.

She is the Community Liaison Officer in Northern Virginia for the Office of the Virginia Attorney General, Jason Miyares.
She is the Founder/Director of the Loudoun Conservatives Care state PAC, which puts on events for conservatives and raises money for local charities, Republican Candidates, and Conservative organizations.

Richard Urban

Richard is the Co-founder, VisionRootUrban Life Training and Urban Grocery.  Richard has been teaching abstinence-centered curricula and organizing clubs for middle and high school youth in Washington DC and elsewhere since 2002.


The event is free, but registration is required.  Lunch will be provided.  

Register by March 13th at

The Strengthening Families and Communities Forum is part of the Peaceful Families; Peaceful World Workshop.


Join us for the 2nd Annual Urban Life Training (ULTRA Teen Choice) Alumni and Friends Barbecue, Sunday, August 28th, 2022 at the Peace Kingdom Center in beautiful Harpers Ferry WV.

All Urban Life Training/ULTRA Teen choice alumni, parents and friends are welcome.  Suggested donation, $10.

The Alumni and Friends Barbecue is immediately following the Strengthening Families and Communities Forum, being held at the same location from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m.

The Strengthening Families and Communities Forum is part of the Peaceful Families, Peaceful World workshop.  

Register for the Barbecue and the Workshop here.


View highlights from the Urban Life Training Alumni and Friends Barbecue on August 22nd, 2021:

Handout from the Alumni and Friends Barbecue:  A Revolution of True Love